Paradox

We as human beings always busy try to please ourselves by doing several different things to keep life going and make it more interesting and vivacious. But at the same time we are not ready to accept that what we do, we do for ourselves. People do charity not just to help others but such acts make them feel contented and happy. So somewhere personal motive is there which drives them to do such more acts…It’s a very human nature that a human being repeats only those acts in which he\she sees his\her benefits and progress. Unless there is no motivation and no benefit he\she cant continue with same acts.. A son chooses to be a doctor not just because his parents want him to be a doctor but because somewhere deep down he also aspire for the same. Unless he doesn’t aspire for being a doctor how come he can be successful in chosen profession? We always keen to present ourselves in such a way that we should be known as altruistic. But aren’t all these characteristic of a hypocrite? Why is it necessary that we should always stood by standards set by the society…. Why raising a voice against cliched thoughts are always termed as “revolt”? TO TOP that…Moral Brigade comes to the rescue to edify us about what is virtuous and acceptable and what is illicit and not rightful thing to do. And so called “social parameters” made by “Anonymous Ancestors” states that thinking about oneself is a biggest sin one can commit and he\she should think and work for the benefit of “human kind”. Making efforts to keep oneself happy is superficially not acceptable in this “virtuous society”. But aren’t all these ethics and parameters are paradoxical and vague?